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Friday, January 11, 2013

7 (or 8 or 9) Quick Takes - Thrush

I am a breast feeding advocate. I believe all moms should try their best to nurse their babies. I have become a bit arrogant and smug about the superiority of breast milk.  I have patted myself on the back for nursing all 7 of my babies and never once having to crack open a can of formula.  Then, God decided to teach me a lesson in humility.  It's called thrush.

The past 2 months, I have been having difficulty nursing Peter. Through an ear infection and teething, he was less than cooperative about nursing and completely emptying each breast at feedings.  I had a plugged duct and worked that out with heat compress, massage and pumping.  No big deal, I've done this before.  I was on the lookout for mastitis. The discomfort continued.  My nipple burned and hurt most of the time.  Then there was the shooting pain through my breast that would take my breath away. I consider myself to be fairly tough with a high pain tolerance.  I don't whine (excessively anyhow!) and pretty much roll with the punches of motherhood.  But this was too much for me to handle on my own.  I consulted friends, the internet, lactation nurses, and eventually my ObGyn for the diagnosis of thrush.

Here are the 8 things I've tried to remedy thrush and what I think of each.

(1) Heat Compress
This does absolutely nothing for me.  But I continue to do it, because at least I feel like I'm trying to do something to make the situation better.

(2) Ibuprofen
This has had zero effect on my pain level.  I will, however, take a mega dose to try and get some sleep at night.

(3) Grapefruit Seed Extract
Basically, this is a natural antibiotic. Perhaps I didn't stick this out long enough, but it didn't do anything for me either.  But, it is natural and has very minimal side effects.

(4) Consultation with Lactation Nurse
This was perhaps the most helpful.  She knew what I was talking about and could describe my symptoms for me.  How does that saying go, "Misery loves company."  It was nice to know that other moms had went through this and made it through alright.

(5) Breast exam and ultrasound
My ObGyn didn't like the way that my breast tissue felt upon exam and wanted to rule out any type of abscess.  It was comforting to know that all the breast tissue is normal, although I don't know if this was necessary.

(6) Diflucan
My ObGyn started me on a 10 day course of Diflucan.  I am only on day 2.  I am hopeful this will take care of the yeast problem so that I can make it through a day without wincing in pain and grabbing my breast...it just isn't socially acceptable, you know!

We called all over town to find this stuff.  We're heading out of town on Sunday and I didn't have time to order it and have it delivered to the house.  Finally, we found a WalMart that had it in stock about 40 minutes away.  My lovely husband (man, I love that guy!) hopped in the car and picked it up for me.  The purpose of this is to kill any yeast that is on my breast.  Also, when Peter nurses it gets in his mouth to kill any yeast that might be hiding out in his mouth. It is a purple die.  I have purple nipples and a baby with a purple mouth.  I don't care.  I just want to feel better.

(8) Probiotics/Yogurt/Reduce Sugar in Diet
I think it is hard to measure this one.  The idea here is to get the good bacteria growing and reduce intake of anything that the yeast can eat/grow in (sugar).  I'm taking a probiotic and eating at least one yogurt a day.

(9) Frequent Nursing
Even the thought of nursing makes me wince.  However, I have been advised to continue nursing at the same level or even more frequently.  The most difficult thing is to appear relaxed during nursing so that Peter will relax and nurse comfortably.

I understand now that sometimes breastfeeding can be so painful and difficult that moms just don't/can't/won't do it.  I have the perspective of 12 years and 7 babies to know that I'll get through this, but a new mom wouldn't have that. Now, through the grace of God, I have the humility to understand that I'm not in this mothering thing alone.  I have spent a number of sleepless nights asking God for the ability to suffer well and offering it up for those on my prayer list.  Most importantly, I get it.  Just because something works for me doesn't mean that it works or is best for everyone else.

I am still a breast feeding advocate.  I still think all moms should try their best to nurse their babies.  But, I understand that it just doesn't work for everyone...and it's not up to me to judge that.

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UPDATE - I ended up doing a ten day course of Diflucan followed by a ten day course of antibiotics, neither of which seemed to have any effect.  I continued to tough it out for another 6 weeks, and then decided to ween him off of that "bad" side.  He is now almost 16 months old and I am only nursing him on one side before he goes to bed for the night. I have absolutely no residual issues with any sort of pain or discomfort.  The lactation nurse said that once the milk dried up and there was no more sugar for the yeast to eat, the pain would subside.  She was right!  Let's hope that she was also correct in saying that it won't "linger" for any future milk that may come with any other babies/nursing experiences.

God Bless!

Heather :-)

17 comments:

  1. I've had thrush, my babies have had it...and I've even had it in my mouth...it is painful to say the least.

    Breastfeeding advocate here too...but with my last baby, it's been interesting to say the least, having to supplement my breastmilk with formula and pumping exclusivly, well, after 5 babies, I thought # 6, would be a breeze--God had other plans for me too!

    Humble pie He sliced me.
    Prayers for you, hoping it gets better soon.

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    1. I've been reading about your experience over this past year. I tip my hat to you and your perseverance with pumping for your little guy. Still praying for continued healing and good health for Simeon. Thanks for stopping by!

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  2. I'm an adoptive mother who didn't breastfeed. I consider myself to be a breastfeeding advocate and I certainly feel that breastfeeding should be the default and is worth putting forth a good amount of effort when challenges arise. But it also bothers me when breastfeeding advocates cross the line into judging or criticizing bottle-feeding mothers. The judgment and criticism should be saved for the formula companies, not for individual mothers. I commend you for your humility and pray that your thrush resolves very soon.

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    1. I agree about the push by the formula companies. Even though I am a breastfeeding mom, I always leave the hospital with "samples" of formula. I've even had a pediatrician tell me it would be to the benefit of my baby to supplement to help resolve jaundice issues. Also, one never knows what is in a bottle. Many a mother pumps to feed in public. I have learned that I can only do what works best for me and support others in what works best for them.

      Thanks for the comment!

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  3. I'm so sorry you are going through this. :( thrush is very painful. I once successfully treated a case with coconut oil. If you google it you'll find a bit of info. Praying for your healing.

    My humble pie came with number 3. I was overconfident and let his latch get lazy. A blister turned into a gaping wound that would not heal. I still have a scar. I remember trembling and sweating and crying during nursing. We worked through it but it involved a complex routine of lanolin, neosporin, and liquid bandaid...lol.

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    1. I've had that issue as well. This time, I used the "brestfriend" nursing pillow. If you can get past the totally lame name, it is a great investment. It keeps baby very close and there is much less chance for latch to get lazy. Hey, when you've got a house full of kiddo's who all need you, it is like an extra set of hands. I've even walked around the house with it. Check it out!

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  4. No photo with this post, Heather? ;-) Just teasing (because I know you have a sense of humor), but I will say a prayer that everything is noticeably better really, really soon. Our Lady of La Leche, pray for Heather!

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    1. Yes, I am trying to keep my sense of humor through all of this. Thanks for your prayers. I don't think I've ever sought the intercession of Our Lady of La Leche! :-)

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    2. We visited the shrine last summer on vacation. I think it was the first shrine in America (about 400 years old). http://www.missionandshrine.org/la_leche.htm

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  5. I'm so sorry to hear it's been difficult. That sounds so painful!:( What probiotic are you taking? Kombucha tea is a natural alternative. It tastes nasty, but it really clears up any bad bacteria and pretty quickly. I think the antibiotic will probably help you the most. Prayers for you both!:)

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    1. Thanks for the prayers. Do you make your own Kombucha tea? I don't think I have the time (or energy) to take that on right now. You should see your little purple-mouthed godson!

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    2. No, I do not. A friend gave me a mushroom to start my own, but I threw it out....too much commitment!:(. Anyway, I used to buy it at Cub in the refrigerated organic section near the meat department. It's not cheap, but it does the trick!

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  6. Good morning Heather, sorry you are not feeling well. Prayers your way for a quick recovery! : )

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  7. I am fortunate that my humbleness came with my first baby. Reading of your pain makes my breasts cringe, as I know it well. I pray you feel better very soon.

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    1. Thanks for your prayers. We're heading out on vacation in the morning and I'm really hoping to feel better soon!

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  8. Hope you are feeling better, Heather, so that you can enjoy a wonderful time with your family at Wisconsin Dells. "Hi" to Grandma Pam and everyone! Can't wait to see some pics!

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