7 (or 8 or 9) Quick Takes - Thrush

I am a breast feeding advocate. I believe all moms should try their best to nurse their babies. I have become a bit arrogant and smug about the superiority of breast milk.  I have patted myself on the back for nursing all 7 of my babies and never once having to crack open a can of formula.  Then, God decided to teach me a lesson in humility.  It's called thrush.

The past 2 months, I have been having difficulty nursing Peter. Through an ear infection and teething, he was less than cooperative about nursing and completely emptying each breast at feedings.  I had a plugged duct and worked that out with heat compress, massage and pumping.  No big deal, I've done this before.  I was on the lookout for mastitis. The discomfort continued.  My nipple burned and hurt most of the time.  Then there was the shooting pain through my breast that would take my breath away. I consider myself to be fairly tough with a high pain tolerance.  I don't whine (excessively anyhow!) and pretty much roll with the punches of motherhood.  But this was too much for me to handle on my own.  I consulted friends, the internet, lactation nurses, and eventually my ObGyn for the diagnosis of thrush.

Here are the 8 things I've tried to remedy thrush and what I think of each.

(1) Heat Compress

This does absolutely nothing for me.  But I continue to do it, because at least I feel like I'm trying to do something to make the situation better.

(2) Ibuprofen

This has had zero effect on my pain level.  I will, however, take a mega dose to try and get some sleep at night.

(3) Grapefruit Seed Extract

Basically, this is a natural antibiotic. Perhaps I didn't stick this out long enough, but it didn't do anything for me either.  But, it is natural and has very minimal side effects.

(4) Consultation with Lactation Nurse

This was perhaps the most helpful.  She knew what I was talking about and could describe my symptoms for me.  How does that saying go, "Misery loves company."  It was nice to know that other moms had went through this and made it through alright.

(5) Breast exam and ultrasound

My ObGyn didn't like the way that my breast tissue felt upon exam and wanted to rule out any type of abscess.  It was comforting to know that all the breast tissue is normal, although I don't know if this was necessary.

(6) Diflucan

My ObGyn started me on a 10 day course of Diflucan.  I am only on day 2.  I am hopeful this will take care of the yeast problem so that I can make it through a day without wincing in pain and grabbing my breast...it just isn't socially acceptable, you know!

(7) Gentian Violet

We called all over town to find this stuff.  We're heading out of town on Sunday and I didn't have time to order it and have it delivered to the house.  Finally, we found a WalMart that had it in stock about 40 minutes away.  My lovely husband (man, I love that guy!) hopped in the car and picked it up for me.  The purpose of this is to kill any yeast that is on my breast.  Also, when Peter nurses it gets in his mouth to kill any yeast that might be hiding out in his mouth. It is a purple die.  I have purple nipples and a baby with a purple mouth.  I don't care.  I just want to feel better.

(8) Probiotics/Yogurt/Reduce Sugar in Diet

I think it is hard to measure this one.  The idea here is to get the good bacteria growing and reduce intake of anything that the yeast can eat/grow in (sugar).  I'm taking a probiotic and eating at least one yogurt a day.

(9) Frequent Nursing

Even the thought of nursing makes me wince.  However, I have been advised to continue nursing at the same level or even more frequently.  The most difficult thing is to appear relaxed during nursing so that Peter will relax and nurse comfortably.

I understand now that sometimes breastfeeding can be so painful and difficult that moms just don't/can't/won't do it.  I have the perspective of 12 years and 7 babies to know that I'll get through this, but a new mom wouldn't have that. Now, through the grace of God, I have the humility to understand that I'm not in this mothering thing alone.  I have spent a number of sleepless nights asking God for the ability to suffer well and offering it up for those on my prayer list.  Most importantly, I get it.  Just because something works for me doesn't mean that it works or is best for everyone else.

I am still a breast feeding advocate.  I still think all moms should try their best to nurse their babies.  But, I understand that it just doesn't work for everyone...and it's not up to me to judge that.

Take a peek at other Quick Takes here.

UPDATE - I ended up doing a ten day course of Diflucan followed by a ten day course of antibiotics, neither of which seemed to have any effect.  I continued to tough it out for another 6 weeks, and then decided to ween him off of that "bad" side.  He is now almost 16 months old and I am only nursing him on one side before he goes to bed for the night. I have absolutely no residual issues with any sort of pain or discomfort.  The lactation nurse said that once the milk dried up and there was no more sugar for the yeast to eat, the pain would subside.  She was right!  Let's hope that she was also correct in saying that it won't "linger" for any future milk that may come with any other babies/nursing experiences.

God Bless!

Heather :-)

Mother's Milk

My mother-in-law forwarded this along to me a few weeks back.  It gave me a good chuckle and I thought perhaps some fellow moms may get a good laugh as well.  Enjoy!

Students in an advanced Biology class were taking their mid-term exam. The last question was, 'Name seven advantages of Mother's Milk.’ The question was worth 70 points or none at all.

One student, in particular, was hard put to think of seven advantages.  However, he wrote:

1) It is perfect formula for the child.
2) It provides immunity against several diseases.
3) It is always the right temperature.
4) It is inexpensive.
5) It bonds the child to mother, and vice versa.
6) It is always available as needed.

And then the student was stuck. Finally, in desperation, just before the bell rang indicating the end of the test, he wrote:

7) It comes in two attractive containers and it's high enough off the ground where the cat can't get it.

He got an A.
 

7th Time is the Charm - Breastfeeding Success!

Before Peter's arrival, I posted a question to find out what is the best breast feeding pillow out there.  From comments and personal e-mails, I decided to ditch the Boppy and try the Brestfriend.  The hospital had the Brestfriend and came highly recommended from the lactation consultant.  Immediately, I knew that this was going to be a great help.  It wraps all the way around my torso and adjusts tightly so that it doesn't slip down.  So even when I doze off and don't hold Peter as close to me as I should, he stays right in place.  It's kind of like a shelf that he lays on while nursing.

That's the adjustable strap on the left side.  You can also see the pocket which I use to hold a rosary and burp cloth.

So while I'm at it, I'll share a bit more of what I've learned from breastfeeding these 7 little blessings.  BEFORE you leave the hospital, consult with a lactation specialist.  Have her come and watch baby latch on...which feels a bit awkward but is tremendously helpful.  She can offer you suggestions to increase your odds of success and reduce any struggles you may encounter along the way.  You can always call later on if you are having difficulties, but it is so convenient for her to come right to your hospital room and share her expertise.

I came across a great product this go 'round. I cannot even begin to explain the relief it gave me those first few weeks.  It is completely safe for baby and doesn't need to be wiped off before nursing.  It's totally worth its weight in gold!

The best nursing bras for your money, in my opinion, are the Bravado brand.  My favorite is the Bravado Original Nursing Bra.  You can do a search on the internet to find the current best deal.  I felt bad spending so much money on underwear, but I live in these things for the first year of baby's life and if I divide the cost over 365 days...it's an easier pill to swallow!  Also make sure to get yourself some quality nursing pads.  Believe me, you'll be glad they're there!

Water, water, water.  I know that you've heard it before, but it simply cannot be overemphasized.  Water is so important to your health and milk supply.  Don't wait to be thirsty to take a drink.  Keep water close by so that you'll be drinking it all day (and when you're up at night) long.  I have found that I like the taste of ice cold water with ice cubes and drink more of it when it is "on the rocks". Stay away from any caffeine.  Even though you may feel like you need something to make it through the afternoon,  it goes through to your milk and will keep baby awake at night.

I'm sure there are other pearls of wisdom I could share, but  Peter is calling me into action.  So, I'm off to another nursing session with my little angel...life is good!

God Bless!

Heather :-)

What's the Best Breastfeeding Pillow?

With less than 2 weeks to go, I am beginning to think about what life with a newborn is like.  This morning, I was struck with memories of the first weeks of breastfeeding.  Last time, I vowed to get a better start.  But with a house full of children and sleep deprivation, I did not.  My problems is always that I don't hold baby up tight against me which results in cracked nipples and a whole plethora of other problems.  My nurse last time put it into words that made sense to me.  She explained that my last recollection of nursing was with a toddler who could latch on in her sleep. A newborn baby doesn't know what to do and I have to teach him.  We have at least 25 pillows in the house and I always try to make due with what we have only to fall into the same problems with baby properly latching on.  This time, I don't want my thriftiness to get in the way of a successful start to breastfeeding.

So, my question to all of you mamas out there is this:  What is the best breastfeeding pillow on the market?  I picked up a Boppy today because they were on sale, but am not at all attached to it.  I would love to hear what advice you all have.

Thanks in advance for any help you can throw my way!

God Bless!

Heather :-)